Is he uncomfortable with the parties you used to attend? Or the kinky sex or exhibitionism?
I would NEVER leave someone else's kids alone in my house while disappearing for a shower. Even by myself, with no possibility for anything sexy at all.
Also, perhaps it's time to insist on a house cleaning service. It's ridiculous to have to juggle everything yourself. The cost can come out of something he hates doing without. Unless he makes himself useful enough that professional house cleaning is no longer required.
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I would NEVER leave someone else's kids alone in my house while disappearing for a shower. Even by myself, with no possibility for anything sexy at all.
Also, perhaps it's time to insist on a house cleaning service. It's ridiculous to have to juggle everything yourself. The cost can come out of something he hates doing without. Unless he makes himself useful enough that professional house cleaning is no longer required.